That’s the one thing I asked. Don’t have me out here looking stupid.
This goes for all relationships. Especially supposed friends and family. I often reevaluate after big changes. So ending my 3 yr relationship has caused an analysis of relationships across the board. Watch those closest to you as they are the ones that are in the best position to hurt you. Create distance from any shady actions and watch from a distance. I wasn’t surprised at what I saw when I paid attention.
Why do we so often protect those that don’t protect us this goes for family as well. I believe in always being the bigger person. Yet the bigger person shouldn’t have to sacrifice or be humiliated on someone else’s behalf. At that point, it’s time to walk away from family, friendships, anyone disloyal.
What is loyalty? a strong feeling of support or allegiance. Why are we loyal to those who are not loyal to you. The fact that they don’t know what loyalty is, is not your problem. Honestly, those are the worst ones. Those that have had very few loyal to them so they are loyal to no one else other than themselves. They are the most toxic and need to be left alone. You are not the sacrifice. God said he would provide the sacrifice, so stop sacrificing yourself.
What is allegiance? loyalty or commitment of an individual to a group or cause.
So with that being said. The breaking of loyalty or allegiance is reason enough for removal. Even the slightest bit of disloyalty can’t be forgiven. I fought so many battles that folks haven’t even heard of because you’re not disrespecting my loved ones to me ever. You can’t come to me in that fashion. How can you kick someone’s back in and beg for forgiveness at the same time? It makes no sense. It’s disloyal. How can you commit the ultimate disrespectful action and still come begging and crying? How? How can you keep secrets that got me out here looking stupid but supposedly you are one of my closest friends and or family? Please don’t walk side by side with me and you are contributing to the problem. We’re not doing that anymore. I rather walk alone than walk with snakes.
Everyone wants a pass. “Please look past my bs”….. HELL NO! So often folks complain about other folks instead of looking inside to figure out why are they allowing all of this to happen. Why haven’t you stepped up instead of blaming someone else? Because it’s easier to accuse than deal with yourself. I’m here to tell you through cutting people off, I also had to deal with myself and step up my standards. I shouldn’t allow people who are unloyal even in my presence. They may have been loyal before but they’re not loyal now, so distance is the fix.